posted on July 10, 2010 by Oil in Tiny Tits
I'm going to reveal an important comfort-building technique I call "Boyfriending."
In a nutshell, there's something you can do that's usually done ONLY by a woman's
boyfriend.
If you do it too, it's a way of getting under a woman's radar and making her
comfortable enough around you so that she'll be receptive to sex without making
you wait.
You see, in order for a typical woman to have sex with a man, she must have
feelings of comfort. It is not enough for her to simply feel attraction for
the guy.
Let's say you meet a girl at a 5 PM happy hour. The two of you hit it off,
having a great conversation. She's laughing. She's interested. You entrance
her by telling her fascinating stories about your life. The two of you have
good rapport.
Around 7:30, you get hungry and invite her to get something to eat. Dinner
goes well too. Then dinner ends. Now what?
Around this time, a lot of guys get confused about how to advance the interaction
forward. Clearly the goal is to get laid, but the roadmap is often muddled.
Usually the night ends with the woman saying something like, "I had great
time meeting you. Call me. Bye!"
Often, the need for comfort is why women like to make guys wait before sex.
(If the guy's lucky, it might be only three dates, but with a lot of women,
the guy can be made to wait for months.)
Fortunately, there's a way to shortcircuit that barrier. I call it the "Boyfriending
Technique."
If you watch couples who are in close relationships, you'll notice an interesting
phenomenon. The man and woman are extremely comfortable touching each other,
so much so that they'll even do seemingly gross things like brush sleep ("eye
boogers") out of each other's eyes.
It's a behavior that's only done by people who are completely comfortable around
each other. Certainly when you are in a relationship where you can brush sleep
out of a woman's eye, you've long since passed the point where the two of you
are comfortable having sex.
Catch my drift? You can use this as a psychological weapon to make the woman
feel more comfortable around you.
In mid-conversation, tell her to hold still and close her eyes. Pretend there's
sleep in her eye, and make her believe that you just brushed it off.
Later, after the two of you finish eating and leave the restaurant, again tell
her to hold still. With your finger, brush off an imaginary piece of food from
her lower lip.
The net result of the Boyfriending Technique is nuclear. First, it sub-communicates
that the two of you are very comfortable around each other.
Second, it involves you touching her face, bringing your heads closer together
and progressing towards a make out session.
Third, in the case of you touching her lower lip, you're in fact touching an
erogenous zone. That's right... a woman's lower lip has a high concentration
of nerve endings. Stimulating her lower lip makes her body release sex hormones.
Make the Boyfriending Technique a part of your dating arsenal, and you'll find
more success than ever before. You may just be having sex within several hours
instead of having to wait several months.
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